Thursday, May 5, 2011

Coffee & Dating.. Choosing Your Poison (or Dating Agency vs. Intuitive Research)

Dating Agencies and Social Sites
vs. 
Intuitive Research and Spiritual Guidance
by Grendl, psychic tarot

 

 

In today's super busy world, overrun by media, technology and entertainment, it is sometimes easier to seek a partner through social circles and dating agencies.  However you should also consider looking inside yourself for more understanding of who you are, what your ultimate goals are, and how you can meet your true destiny.  Many singles are interested in making real partnerships, and longer lasting relationship connections, but because of past experiences, may not really as open to making a connection as they think they are.  An intuitive and knowledgeable interpreter of the Tarot cards can show a Questioner what past events may still be obstacles in the present, and how to overcome these past events, which can cause repetitive actions that can never attain their highest goals.

In today's world, we are saturated with work, and onerous schedules, creating less time to socialize and meet new people in situations that allow all the mental, physical, emotional and spiritual energies to be engaged in unison.  A survey conducted in 2006 estimated that the number of singles in the United States alone is at a staggering 92 million!  The mind boggles at the ballooning population of singles the world over. 

I am not suggesting for a moment that there is anything negative about choosing to remain single; indeed, there are clubs in the US and in other parts of the world that actually celebrate singlehood. But the point is this: a lot of people would much rather celebrate friendship, companionship and being in a partnership with someone than live out their existence all alone. That is the reason many loners seek out dating agencies and the services they have to offer, pre-screening and analyzing members so that their suggested matches meet the expectations.   Another large portion of singles reach out to social networks online, such as Facebook, seeking someone who can fulfill their dreams in a relationship. Getting to know them in this manner allows some sense of security.

There are many successful relationships that have developed via the electronic highway, and long distance romances that have fruited into togetherness and marriage.  On the other hand, there are many more that never really germinate into a two-sided affair.  There are so many individuals that are afraid of real commitment, because of past relationship traumas that may still be clouding their emotional environment, and possibly even their physical space such as in the case of divorced parents with joint custody.  Finding reliable relationship advice can go along way in helping to define what is actually needed for an individual to create and maintain the lasting partnership they are seeking. That kind of advice is not on the menu at most dating agencies, and here is where more intuitive research can bridge the gaps .

Most dating agencies, especially the reputed ones, have a high success rate, and offer many tools to help their members find truly compatible partners.  However there are a great many people that are skeptical of joining a match service. For starters, registering with an agency can feel  'artificial' and 'unnatural' to them. But it is very much in our human nature to seek companionship and social interaction. Before taking a plunge into the unknown with a match-making group, do make a point to research the membership, and above all, be honest in your presentation of who you are. Taking the time to check the successes of the agency you choose can build your own confidence in making the connection you seek.  And of course, one should be aware that there are a few companies out there that are taking advantage of the huge market evolving out of the singles population, and not really providing a lot of expertise in regards to what makes people compatible  A really good dating agency will size you up and if you are the shy type, will even offer to counsel you on how to build relationships. Some provide chat forums and events like balls and dinners allowing you to mix and mingle till you find your potential date. You'll be surprised to learn how many people get paired off at the conclusion of such events.

But once you are in the relationship, who do you turn to for advice?  Intuitive research, like Tarot readings or Angel oracles, can help...In my field of work, I find that those seeking answers from me regarding their relationship often get advised by the cards as to which actions to take, how to deal with emotional aspects, and how to create more positive focus on the situation at hand.

Consider looking deeper at the relationship you have with yourself, and let the intuitive and spiritual perspectives that the Tarot has to offer open you to new potential for your future.  You can make an appointment with me for private readings through my web pages, Grend's Tarot Parlor.

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